Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What is your particular “style” of dominance?

A: I consider myself to be most comfortable in the role of the Seductress. My style is undoubtedly softer then your stereotypical “snarling whip Mistress”. That is not to say I won’t use a whip, but only after you’ve proven yourself worthy of such exquisitely torturous attention. I personally find that seduction is WAY more powerful a tool than intimidation. A softer style is often wrongly mistaken for weakness, this misnomer is swiftly dispelled when I begin pulling your strings.

Q: I clicked a button back there agreeing I am a legal adult, so, where is all the “naughty” stuff?

A: Even though this site contains absolutely NO underage content or reference to such, relatively few depictions of sexual acts, and very little nudity, I have done all that is legally required to protect children from viewing and/or participating in my site and/or adult content. In order to better protect the innocence of children everywhere, all visual content that is even close to pornographic material is kept password protected. Only legal adults are able to purchase memberships… you’ll just have to join to see the goodies.

Q: What the heck is all this business about a “porch” and a “parlor”?

A: From the very first website I owned up through today, and into the foreseeable future, I work very hard to bring you , my viewers, the most intimate, personal, honest glimpse into who/what I am. That being said, I always thought the term “member’s area” was too generic and kinda cheapened what I do here. Last summer I read an AWESOME book called “Seductress: Women Who Ravished the World and Their Lost Art of Love”, about the great Seductresses of all time. It wasn’t that they were always the youngest or the prettiest… what all these women had in common was the ability to captivate and keep the men they desired. These women were intellectuals, artists, adventurers, they balked at convention and blazed their own trail. Most of these great women would entertain their callers in their parlor, soooo viola - that’s where I’ll entertain you. Anyone can stand on the porch peeking in the panes, but only the very best most desirable suitors will find themselves inside MY parlor.

Q: Can I purchase your incredibly seductive and erotically intoxicating
content? Do you do custom commissioned projects?

A: The majority of everything you’ll find on this website is my very own hand made content. There are some things that boys have created special for me that pepper the site, like some awesome graphics (thanks yt), some killer captions (ty PanZ and Indy), some awesome collaborative projects featuring some other Mistresses and the gorgeous Sardax illustration (ty S, can’t wait for more), some AWESOME programs (thanks puppy from the past), pictures of pets and playthings (thanks guys) and tons of script ideas and savory exchanges that took on lives of their own in the form of some sorchingly hot content (you all know who you are). I do enjoy working with a boy to create something that will totally devastate him, so YES bring on the “customs”! I am also developing a “MWK Market” in which I will be selling CDs with my mp3s, autographed pics, custom shoots, intimate items, tease/torture kits, rope, and more. Look for it to hit the site this summer!

Q: Do you offer any real time/in person sessions?

A: I do. I am both a professional AND lifestyle Domme. I have a few local boys, and my absolute favorite lives with me. At this time though, unfortunately, I do not have a dungeon to entertain clients. I am working towards fixing that. However, I have on occasion allowed some of my most favorite and loyal online/phone pets, make the crossover from virtual to REAL service. I do have a rather nice and ever growing collection of quality toys, as well as developing/building some of my own. NOW I just need the dungeon! Wanna help build our dream space? Call now and often, or just send money and I’ll add it to the dungeon development fund. Or maybe you have a property you’d like to donate?

Q: Which type of session do you prefer? In person? Distance Training?

A: My absolutely favorite kinda of session is the one where I leave you gasping for air, squirming, and completely spent, but (most likely) still VERY full. I want to REALLY affect you, so whatever we do I want you to be completely engaged and really feeling it. If you curse, plead, or cry even better! I find with the right boy, or fetish, I am able to do "that". Be it phone, computer or right there in person, either way I can make you feel me. I guess it would really depend on the dynamic and or fetish… I mean some of the stuff that I get really hot talking about, I’d NEVER even think of doing for real. Then again, if we are talking about you cleaning my house in the buff… that’s a million times better in person.

Q: What are your thoughts/feelings on ownership?

A: I have come to realize that in the past I have leaned towards being a purist in all aspects of my dominance. Once I bumped into a boy I found particularly savory or useful, I needed to possess him completely, make him mine. For many this is not capable in this medium, or stage of their life, and man… is it exhausting. But the rush from total control is like nothing else… no drug or adrenalin producing activity I’ve ever indulged. Now, I have a slave of my own here with me so that need to totally posses another is tempered. I have come to recognize that total ownership is a HUGE blessing and burden, and therefore am very selective about those I “own”. Sure the ultimate goal for me personally is total dominance over another, but I am now very happy to allow that to exist within tiny little bubbles of negotiated time. And if I like you, I bet, I end up keeping you awhile.

Q: Looking for any live in slaves?

A: I find with these types of matters, its always worked out where I find what I seek, when I am not looking. So, although I am not looking, if I met the “right” slave (and had the space), I wouldn’t be opposed at all. As a matter of fact it has been a long standing fantasy of mine, to have a kinky compound, in which everyone adores and works hard to please me! So once I make my first million, I am gonna buy/build a huge house in the middle of no where , but relatively close to a big city, and have a spot where my slaves and I can work, and space to lease to kink communities for events/retreats. Hey, a girl can dream.

Q: I read somewhere that you are married, how does your husband feel about your chosen profession?

A: I am married to THE most awesome man in the world. He absolutely loves me, and supports me in everything I do, even this. He recently told Tyra (Banks on the Tyra Show) that he is “…aroused by the power she (me) holds over these guys” Until most recently he staunchly defended his vanilla ness , but after 10 years he can’t deny the sexy appeal of service and submission. He likes to identify with the samurai of feudal Japan with me in the role of “lord”, and he’s a wonderfully worshipful slave. Together we are active in a few different groups within our local BDSM community, and he encourages my stable building.

Q: So is it safe to assume that those are REALLY pictures of you?

A: Yes, they are my own images. No professional model mask here… though I understand full well the unfortunate reason you ask. There are SO many women out there who throw some model’s pictures and a toll free number up and call it domination. Heck, I started out that way. Often times you boys don’t really REALLY care whether the pics are us on not if we make you feel a certain way. I just have the nerve and luxury to embrace who/what I am across the board.

Q: Do you own a strap on? Flogger?

A: Yes, I do own both a strap on harness with many dildo attachments as well as a few different floggers. And many other toys. Unlike many of the other "Dommes" you find online, I actually do the things we talk about. If you'd like to see what I have in my toybox(es) visit the porch gallery. If you want to help add to my collection visit my pamper me page for my ideas and my stockroom wishlist.

Q: I am not really into this denial thing, do you ever let anyone cum?

A: No, I never let anyone cum. I do however, very much enjoy making someone cum. If you don't understand the distinction, there is a good chance we aren't going to mesh.

Q: Whoa, I just noticed you no longer type all fucked up... are Y/you alright?

A: I am very much alright. In the beginning of my online dominance I was still very unsure of my own style, so it was easy to get wrapped up in trying to do things "THE right way". I remember watching boys get shredded in chatrooms for "not showing proper respect" when they didn't capitialize a Mistress's pronouns. Hell, I even did that a few times myself. But the more my online life bled into my personal life, the more I wrote. The more I wrote the less keystrokes I wanted to use. Then I began doing these things I talked/wrote about online... for real. And I began seeing the whole submission through capitalization for what it was, an invention of the internet. Posturing by pc. And well it just seemed kinda silly. That and I was beginning to type like that ALL the time, even in emails to mom.

Q: I can't remember my password to the parlor, can you look it up.

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